Saturday, April 14, 2012

Costa Rica: Day 1

Solomon and I arrived in San Jose around 1pm on Sunday and took an airport taxi to the hostel.  We had woken up at 2am that morning to get to the airport on time and were quite exhausted by the time we arrived. The taxis are bright orange with big yellow triangles on the side and have set prices to various parts of San Jose.  Our taxi driver couldn't find his way directly to the hostel as a street festival was blocking the way so he turned off his meter part way and we ended up paying $30. We checked into Aldea Hostel into a dorm room with 8 beds and a private bathroom ($13 pp).  There were wooden lockers to put your packs (had to supply our own locks) and a promise of hot water for certain hours of the day.  Our rooms water was broken so we took cold showers for the first time of our trip. The hostel was decorated with pop art pictures of girls with big, juicy lips smoking cigars.  A pool table sat under a chandelier in the front hall and the kitchen was in a courtyard outside.

The first thing we did was head to the Tica Bus stop which was a couple blocks away to try to get three bus tickets to Nicaragua the next day.  We figured out you could go straight to Granada (not to Managua) quite easily on the Tica bus as it was a scheduled stop, but we needed all three passports to get the tickets.  Since Nick was not arriving until 9 at night, we left and planned to get them early the next morning.  We went to Pali, the grocery store and bought some pasta to cook for the night while we waited for Nick to arrive.  The hostel staff sat around smoking while we ate dinner and took a nap to pass the time.  The sheets were clean and we didn't need sleep sacks here. By the time Nick showed up, the hostel staff had changed shifts and we had to convince the guy at the front desk that Nick was already paid for and reserved.  We decided to try our luck with the bus stop again and were happy to find it open so we could buy our tickets.  For anyone trying to go to the Tica Bus stop it is open quite late at night, if not 24 hours a day.  We went at about 11 pm and had no problems.  In fact, a bus was just getting in.  Buying the night before turned out to be okay but we could only get on the noon bus and not the 6am one.  Knowing this bought us a few more hours to catch up on sleep, we headed back to the hostel to bed.

Friday, April 13, 2012

Nica Living (Culture Shock)

One of the most interesting things about travelling is seeing the little differences between where we live and where others spend their days.  There are many of these observations in my day to day details but here are a few overwhelming discrepancies.

First of all, the heat.  This may seem obvious but the heat and humidity combined was simply...overwhelming.
This was coupled with frequent electrical outages that turned off the rusty fan right when you needed it the most.  The best way to cool off was in the showers because there was no hot water.  Water was often collected in rain barrels and so heated somewhat by the sun but at most it was tepid, and at the least it was icy. While this felt nice in the middle of the hot day, an icy shower in the morning was a sure way to ensure an efficient bathe.  The one hostel that had hot water was heated by an electrical device attached to the shower head. Occasionally the water would just not run at all on the Isla de Ometepe.

The water from the shower often ran directly out into the yard behind the room, which was at times in a courtyard and just open to the sky.

Speaking of the bathrooms, one of the first things you'll notice if you visit a similar country is that the plumbing is rather...touch and go.  Instead of flushing anything down the toilet, you must put all your, ahem, toilet waste into a trash can near the toilet.  You can imagine the aroma this gives to every bathroom and surrounding area as this sits in the hot sun.

Riding Nica Style was another stunning difference.  Nicas would put 2-4 people on one bike and ride to and from work.  Instead of sitting on the handle bars or on pegs like we sometimes do, another person and a baby would sit on the main frame of the bike in front of the seat.  The rider would wrap their arms around their passengers, helping to keep their balance.

These were a few of the things that stood out the most but read on to the day to day recaps for more!




Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Nica Living (Costs for Costa Rica and Nicaragua)

Phew! Well the past couple weeks went by FAST. We successfully moved to Colorado and a week later got on a plane for our much anticipated Costa Rica- Nicaragua trip!
There will be many posts and pictures to come detailing what we did and where we stayed in the following days but let's start with the nitty-gritty.

First of all, keeping a daily budget kind of fell through.  Travelling with three people we found ourselves fronting each other money and then being paid back later--something that made it very hard to keep track of day to day expenses.  Instead I will give overall cost of the trip and details of what some important things cost.

Before we left we were able to save up more than we originally thought so we raised our budget to $1500 for two people.  This turned out to be a good thing because we came in at $1494- wow, that was close! That comes to $93 dollars a day, for two people. Things that were more expensive than expected: bus tickets, border crossings, Costa Rica as a whole (we forgot how many of the prices rival those in the US!), and a much needed night with air conditioner when we all weren't feeling well.

Nicaragua was much, much cheaper than Costa Rica and spending most of our time there surely helped us from going over budget. We were significantly under the daily $93 on our days in Nicaragua but even a few days in Costa Rica quickly made up for it. Here are a few of the daily costs:
  • McDonald's at the Denver International Airport: $15
  • Taxi ride from Juan Santamaria international airport (Alajuela) to hostel in San Jose:: $30
  • Hostel in Costa Rica (Aldea Hostel, near Tica Bus station in San Jose): $13 pp (one night- $26)
  • Tica Bus tickets from San Jose to Managua: $26 pp ($52)
    For this we got off at Granada and had the option to get off at Rivas but the price does not change. 
  • Border crossing into Nicaragua: $14 pp ($28)
    Note that Costa Rica is free to exit and enter, but Nicaragua charges for both.
  • First night in Granada (unknown hostel, found at night on the way into town from Tica Bus stop): $5 pp (one night- $10)
  • Next two nights in Granada (the Bearded Monkey): $7 pp (two nights- $28)
  • Las Islas tour from Granada (random boat off the beach): $5 pp ($10 for both + tip)
  • 1 Litre of Flor de Cana Rum: $12
  • 2 750 mLs of Flor de Cana Rum: $8 each ($16)
  • Haircut, shave, facial and face massage at local barber (Sol and Nick): $18
  • 5 hour ferry from Granada to Altagracia on Isla de Ometepe: $5pp ($10)
  • Shuttle from ferry to hotel (from tout on ferry): < $1 pp ($2)
  • Hotel Castillo in Altagracia: $6 pp (two nights: $24)
  • Guided hike up Volcan Concepcion: $20 pp ($40, but should have been less because we paid a middle man)
  • Bike rental: $6 pp/ per day ($8 for both, half day)
  • Natural spring swimming hole: $2 pp ($4)
  • Taxi back from Playa Domingo to Altagracia: $15 for three people
  • Taxi to ferry stop in Moyagalpa: $20
  • 1 hour ferry from Moyagalpa to San Jorge: $2 pp ($4)
  • Taxi from San Jorge to San Juan del Sur (about 45 min to an hour): $15 for three people
  • Hotel Estrella in San Juan del Sur: $8 pp with free breakfast (two nights- $32)
  • Transport to Playa Marsella from the hotel: $15 with hotel transport, for all three of us
  • Hostal Amelia with air conditioning, San Juan del Sur: $30 for the room
  • Taxi from San Juan del Sur to the border: $16 for two people
  • Leaving Nicaragua: $3 pp (paid in increments of $1 each and then $2 each- $6 total)
  • Bus from the border to Liberia Costa Rica: $12 pp ($24)
  • Posada del Tope in Liberia: $20 for the room (one night)
  • Bus from Liberia to Puntarenas: $5 pp ($10)
  • Bus from Puntarenas to Quepos: $6.50 pp ($13)
  • Wide Mouth Frog Hostel in Quepos: $35 a night per room with free breakfast, plus an $8 deposit for keys and towels (4 nights, $140)
  • Bus to Manuel Antonio National Park: 50 cents pp one way ($4 for two days, round trips)
  • Manuel Antonio National Park entrance fee: $10 pp (2 days, $40)
  • Bus from Quepos to San Jose: $8 pp ($16 total, but we bought 4 tickets because we needed to change our time after our original purchase, so $32)
  • Taxi from Coca Cola bus station in San Jose to Maleku Hostel in Alajuela= $25 (unlicensed cab)
  • Maleku Hostel with free airport shuttle= $15 pp (one night- $30)
  • Costa Rica airport departure tax= $26 pp ($52)
  • Parking at the Denver International Airport: $7 per day ($112 for 16 days)
These are the main expenses we incurred. All prices are dependent on the exchange rate at the time which was around $1= 23 cordobas in Nicaragua and $1= 520 colones in Costa Rica.  

  • Other taxi rides in Nicaragua ranged from $1- $15.
  • Meals in Nicaragua ranged from $2 pp for a set plate (rice and beans, mixed veggies, and meat), to $5 pp for spaghetti, to $10 pp at an American-style restaurant in San Juan del Sur. With the prices above for lodging and transport, we spent an average of $30 or less a day on snacks and meals (going out to eat and groceries).
  • In Costa Rica meals ranged from $6 pp for a set plate to $20 pp for upscale Italian food.
  • A tour of the petroglyphs and natural springs on Ometepe was going to be $10 pp but we ended up renting bikes instead.
  • A soda in Nicaragua cost anywhere from 20 cents (at a small, local tienda which you had to return your glass bottle) to $1 (at bus and ferry stations). A 2 liter bottle of water cost less than $1 (around 80 cents).
  • In Costa Rica a soda cost around $1.75- $2 and a 2 liter of water cost around $2.
  • In Nicaragua, a t-shirt with little to no haggling cost $5.  A small painting cost $5 as well.
  • For groceries we spent an average of $5 per trip (consisting of food for 1-2 meals) in Nicaragua and $15 in Costa Rica.
  • Nick's sunglasses at a local market, no haggling, cost $15.  A hair band for me cost 1/23 of $1 (1 cordoba).
  • A coloring book at an exclusive stationary store in Nicaragua cost around $3.25.
  • Bananas cost less than 4 cents each in Nicaragua. 
Some things that are hard to account for are bank foreign transaction fees and ATM fees and conversion rates at street money changers. Just make sure you know your bank's policy and the exchange rate before you go.

Another thing to consider is that when you travel with three people, it is often more convenient to pay for all three hotel beds at a time, and thus each person inevitably ends up paying for the others at some point or another.  Unless you rigidly keep track of this or religiously keep each payment separate, budgets will be harder to keep and you may end up over or under spending compared to what you calculated for yourself.



Thursday, February 23, 2012

Packing List: Costa Rica- Nicaragua 2012

One of the things I find most helpful about reading other travel blogs is information on budgets and what to bring.  Here I'll post the packing list for our 16 days in Costa Rica and Nicaragua. While this might seem like a long list, most of the stuff we only need one between the three of us. Many of the things are also very small and will fit easily in our pack

We will each need to bring:

  • 1 swimsuit
  • 1 long sleeve shirt
  • 1 sweatshirt/ thin jacket
  • 1 rain poncho
  • 1 travel towel
  • 1 sleep sack
  • 1 pair of pants (travel pants)
  • 4 shirts
  • 2-3 tank tops (for me, not for the boys)
  • 1-2 dresses or skirts (again, not for the boys)
  • 3 pairs of socks
  • 1 pair of flip flops
  • 1 pair of walking shoes
  • 3 pairs of shorts
  • enough underwear for the whole trip
  • a toothbrush
  • razors
  • deodorant
  • makeup (for me: foundation, eyeliner, mascara, blush/compact with a mirror)
Collectively we will have to bring:
  • toothpaste
  • floss
  • chapstick
  • hair brush/ comb
  • lotion
  • sunscreen
  • bug spray
  • shampoo
  • body wash
  • conditioner
  • face wash
  • ear plugs
  • duct tape (wrapped around a pen)
  • camping silverware set
  • clothes line
  • drain plug
  • malaria medication
  • anti-diarrheals 
  • cipro (antibiotic in case of bad case of stomach bug)
  • motion sickness meds
  • hand sanitizer
  • sewing kit
  • guidebooks
  • pack of cards
  • daypack (to hold valuables during bus trips or water, snacks, books, etc. for day trips)
  • band aids
  • cortisone cream
  • Advil
  • antibiotic ointment
  • tweezers
  • wet wipes
  • paper copies of prescriptions
  • sunglasses
  • camera + case + charger
  • phone + charger
  • journal + pen
  • book
  • flashlight
  • headlamps
  • travel pillows
  • passports
  • US dollars in small bills (keep some in moneybelt with passport and some in another location)
  • moneybelts
  • luggage locks
  • credit cards (be sure to notify companies of travel)
  • copies of passport (stored separately from originals)
  • insurance cards and ids (including student id)
  • toilet paper
Optional items:
  • allergy medicine
  • mosquito coils
  • water sterlizer
We will keep toiletries and things that can leak in plastic ziplock bags.  We have a toiletry case for the small items/ medicines/ first aid stuff so that it won't get lost in our bags. 

Monday, February 20, 2012

The North Shore and the Viking Motel

A couple of weeks ago we took an awesome, spur of the moment trip to the North Shore. (for those not in the know, this is the Northeast part of Minnesota along Lake Superior) It all started while we were eating and having Vietnamese coffee at Kinhdo in Minneapolis. It was suggested (not sure by whom) that we should take a weekend trip to the North Shore. Early afternoon was already approaching so we had to decide quickly. After everyone was in agreement we packed a quick backpack and headed out.

On the first night (and it was evening by the time we got there) we made it as far as Two Harbors. Along the way we stopped at two small town/ blue collar liquor stores to stock up on rations. Megan and Nick went classy with two bottles of wine, while I decided on Bell’s Two Hearted IPA which claims to be “well suited for adventurous trips to the upper peninsula” which is very close to the North Shore. As soon as we made it to Two Harbors we picked the first random/creepy/cheap motel to stay at. The name of the place was Viking Motel and the rooms were what I would lovingly call “retro”. The innkeeper was very friendly (possibly because we were the only people staying there on a Saturday night) and strangely enough suggested a restaurant called Viking Legends. She even had a coupon we could use for one free drink! The draw to this place was the fact that you could meet a Viking legend, Jim Marshall #70, who was also a co-owner. We never did meet him (or actually know who he was), but it was very Minnesota-ey and to boot- the staff was friendly.

Once we arrived back at the motel, we went ahead and quickly started the festivities. The first order of business was to restore the heat (which was not working, but was quickly restored by the innkeeper). Next, we went ahead and “upgraded” the room by turning the bathtub into an impromptu hot tub! Unfortunately the water was a little rusty so I decided to reclassify it as a natural hot spring. At first everyone sat around with just their feet in the light brownish red water. Later as the adventurous spirit that is Bell’s Two Hearted consumed me I decided to seize the moment and go all in!

The next day we started with breakfast at the well known Betty's Pies.  Corned beef hash, biscuits and gravy, and delicious pie was a great start to the day.  Then we drove up the North Shore to Split Rock Lighthouse where we watched a historical video about the lighthouse's history. A small museum detailed the maritime history of the lake.  We were able to admire the lake during the daylight the entire way home.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Goals and Dreams: First world problems?

When I think about all the goals and dreams I have in my life (re: bucket list, reading list, travel goals, etc.) I can't help but think about how fortunate I am to even be able to hope for these things.  What if I had to wake up each day and spend every waking moment trying to eat, trying to survive? I would have no time to wish for travel, to fulfill personal goals, to try to become the person I want to be.  There are many, many admirable people who overcome their living situations to fulfill their goals and dreams and to make a difference in the world.  There are many more who can never do more than struggle to survive.
This makes me feel the need to spend more time just appreciating the life and opportunities that I have. It makes me want to make sure my luxurious extra time is not wasted and that I do become the best person I can be.  I have the luxury of being able to spend time just on myself.  I have health, security, support, love and so many other blessings that I am able to sit around pondering the meaning of life and what I wish to do with it.  This just blows my mind sometimes...that I can even be so introspective and spend so much time on self fulfillment.  I want to give back in some way and I'm hoping that one day I figure out just how to do this.  I want to be able to take the luck and opportunity I have been given, just by virtue of where and to whom I was born, and give that to others who are not so fortunate.  I also do not want to waste what I have been given because so many others would give so much for what I have.

At the same time, this makes me feel superficial about my own personal goals.  Travelling around the world? What good does that do for anyone besides myself? At times I feel selfish and spoiled.  If I ever have a bad day or feel upset with my life, I wonder what gives me the right to feel that way when I have so much.  I guess the only thing I can do is try to help others along the way to fulfilling my own goals...hopefully I will figure out how to do this as I go along because it seems so vague as I think about it now. Are all those first world volunteers going out for two weeks to "help" a third world community really helping? Or are they just doing it to make themselves feel better? Where is the line between too privileged and making full use of your opportunities? What is selfish and what is just understanding you are fortunate and not letting this be taken for granted? I'm hoping to gain more insight on this this year.

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

100 Novels Reading List

So in trying to compile my list of 100 books to read for my bucket list I began searching online for ideas.
First of all, I decided on only putting fiction/ novels on my list as nonfiction seemed like a wholly different goal.  I found a couple sources to draw from in creating my list:

First, Modern Library's 100 Best Novels list and the companion Reader's Choice 100 Best list:
http://www.modernlibrary.com/top-100/100-best-novels/

Then there was Radcliffe's Rival list:
http://www.modernlibrary.com/top-100/radcliffes-rival-100-best-novels-list/

Then another reader submission-based list:
http://www.thebest100lists.com/best100novels/

And finally NPR's top novels list:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=103869541

From this I created my own.  What I liked about the reader submissions was that there were more contemporary novels, not just "classics."  In choosing my list I wanted some variety and not just the obvious literary greats.  So here goes:
  1. To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
  2. 1984 by George Orwell
  3. Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
  4. Satanic Verses by Salman Rushdie
  5. The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger
  6. The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
  7. Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky
  8. Catch-22 by Joseph Heller
  9. Animal Farm by George Orwell
  10. Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov
  11. Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte
  12. The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky
  13. Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy
  14. War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy
  15. Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte
  16. The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas
  17. The Arabian Nights
  18. The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck
  19. Lord of the Flies by William Golding
  20. Ulysses by James Joyce
  21. Great Expectations by Charles Dickens
  22. A Tale of Two Cities by Charles Dickens
  23. Gone with the Wind by Margaret Mitchell
  24. The English Patient by Michael Ondaatje 
  25. Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut
  26. East of Eden by John Steinbeck
  27. One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez
  28. Harry Potter Series by J.K. Rowling
  29. The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain
  30. The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien
  31. Don Quixote by Miguel de Cervantes
  32. Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand
  33. Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck
  34. The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand (In Progress)
  35. A Clockwork Orange by Anthony Burgess
  36. The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini
  37. The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis
  38. The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde
  39. The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams
  40. Frankenstein by Mary Shelley
  41. Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury
  42. The Sound and the Fury by William Faulkner
  43. One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest by Ken Kesey
  44. Moby Dick by Herman Melville
  45. Ender's Game by Orson Scott Card
  46. The Stranger by Albert Camus
  47. Heart of Darkness by Joseph Conrad
  48. A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man by James Joyce
  49. The Sun Also Rises by Ernest Hemingway
  50. Watership Down by Richard Adams
  51. His Dark Materials by Phillip Pullman
  52. The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger
  53. On the Road by Jack Kerouac
  54. Dracula by Bram Stoker
  55. The Stand by Stephen King
  56. The Da Vinci Code by Dan Brown
  57. The Old Man and the Sea by Ernest Hemingway
  58. The Road by Cormac McCarthy
  59. Dune by Frank Herbert
  60. Little Women by Louisa May Alcott
  61. Madame Bovary by Gustave Flaubert
  62. Tess of the D'Urbervilles by Thomas Hardy
  63. Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison
  64. Life of Pi by Yann Martel
  65. Memoirs of a Geisha by Arthur Golden
  66. Love in the Time of Cholera by Gabriel Garcia Marquez (In Progress)
  67. David Copperfield by Charles Dickens
  68. A Confederacy of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole
  69. A Farewell to Arms by Ernest Hemingway
  70. Middlemarch by George Eliot
  71. For Whom the Bell Tolls by Ernest Hemingway
  72. Remembrance of Things Past by Marcel Proust
  73. Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier
  74. The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera
  75. Fight Club by Chuck Palahniuk
  76. The Golden Cage by Shirin Ebadi (In Progress)
  77. The Idiot by Fyodor Dostoevsky
  78. Persuasion by Jane Austen
  79. Of Human Bondage by W. Somerset Maugham
  80. The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood
  81. To the Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf
  82. The Name of the Rose by Umberto Eco
  83. A Prayer for Owen Meany by John Irving
  84. As I Lay Dying by William Faulkner
  85. The Trial by Franz Kafka
  86. The Good Soldier by Ford Madox Ford
  87. The Master and Margarita by Mikhail Bulgakov
  88. Blood Meridian by Cormac McCarthy
  89. The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
  90. Beyond Religion: Ethics for a Whole World by H.H. the Dalai Lama
  91. The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath
  92. Emma by Jane Austen
  93. A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini
  94. Siddharta by Hermann Hesse
  95. Midnight's Children by Salman Rushdie (In Progress)
  96. Atonement by Ian McEwan
  97. What is the What by Dave Eggers (In Progress)
  98. The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver
  99. Cat's Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut
  100. The Scarlet Letter by Nathaniel Hawthorne





Friday, January 20, 2012

GoPro

For Christmas I got an awesome present from my mom: A GoPro HD Hero2 video camera.

This tiny little camera takes amazing HD footage and can be mounted on your head, your chest, your wrist and every piece of sporting equipment you can imagine.  Hopefully videos will help make our blog more dynamic in the future and we hope to capture some pretty cool stuff while travelling.

Here's the GoPro promo video to give you an idea of how great this thing is:

Life

If I've learned anything in the past couple of years it's that life is hard. Life seriously sucks sometimes. I've also learned that life is precious.  It can be beautiful, it can be excruciating, it can be stressful, it can be exhilarating. Life is short and it's about, well, living.  I look back over recent years and can hardly fathom how much has changed.

The biggest change for me was the loss of my father.  As we approach the two year anniversary of his death (January 25th) I am still finding out that life has a way of throwing curveballs at you at every turn. I never could have imagined that life would have turned out like this.  In the past two years since the accident I managed to finish school a semester early, write a Summa thesis, graduate with the highest honors my University awards, buy my first home, get married, get my first post-college job, and so much more.  All of these things are wonderful accomplishments that I am very proud of but I never in a million years imagined that my dad wouldn't be there to see them.  He couldn't walk me down the aisle (although I was honored to have my mom fill this role).  He couldn't give me advice on the joys and horrors of homeownership.  He couldn't tell me he was proud when all my hard work paid off at school.  So many life changes that should bring so much joy but are always shadowed by the fact that he isn't here to see them.  I miss him every single day and still have a hard time imagining my life without him.  He won't know his grandchildren or be here to see what his children become. However, even though he cannot be here in person, everything I do is touched and affected by my dad.  I fill with pride whenever I recognize a part of him in me.  I miss him watching football in the living room on Sundays.  I miss him getting excited as he talked about his trips.  I miss him bragging about us kids to his friends.  I miss his hugs, and pats on the back, and "I love you, Meggy"'s.  But everything I accomplish is for him.  Everything I want to achieve is for him.  I want to make my dad proud, whether he is here to physically see it or not.  I would have loved for him to tell me I looked beautiful in my wedding dress, and I would have loved to tell him about my travels.  I would have loved to tell him my plans and for him to see what I eventually become.  But I am ready to take on life because of him and his love and dedication to our family provides me with so much inspiration as I move forward.

And now, after so many changes, I am preparing for even more.  I want to attend the Josef Korbel School for a graduate degree in International Development and Humanitarian Assistance.  This means applications, letters of recommendation, taking the GRE and adjusting to a whole new university. We are planning the move to Denver, Colorado and looking at new apartments, jobs and moving services (Moving is expensive! Yikes!).  This also means selling our first home and being a renter again.  In our relationship we call Solomon the settler and I'm the wanderer.  Renting, moving, change, change and more change is all exciting to me.  It keeps more looking forward.  I love to plan, to organize, to take steps forward.  It helps me to keep on living and to take control of my life after so much has been uprooted. It helps me to feel alive and fulfilled. Sol likes to settle, to nest and to make a home.  Hopefully we will find a happy middle somewhere.

Moving also means living much farther away from family, something that breaks my heart even if they may not think so all the time. It means not being able to go home on the weekends and feelings of guilt that I'm abandoning my ties here in Minnesota. It means I will miss them horribly. I am hoping that eventually everyone I love will be able to understand and accept the decisions I make in my life because nothing is more important to me than the people I love. We have struggled together through physical and emotional recovery from the accident and have celebrated accomplishments together.  As I muddle through the logistics of moving and starting a new chapter in our lives, I am forever grateful for my family and friends. We have too little time with our loved ones as it is, and I'm hoping, if nothing else, that the distance will make me appreciate our relationships that much more.

Sometimes travel means visiting a foreign country.  Other times it means moving to a new state.  Other times it means looking back and realizing just how far you've come.  Our journeys are ever unwinding as we get lost and find our way again.

How about a few words of wisdom from my favorite quotable man to help us through?

“When we meet real tragedy in life, we can react in two ways--either by losing hope and falling into self-destructive habits, or by using the challenge to find our inner strength.” 
― Dalai Lama XIV


“There is a saying in Tibetan, 'Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength.' 
No matter what sort of difficulties, how painful experience is, if we lose our hope, that's our real disaster.” 
― Dalai Lama XIV


“If you have fear of some pain or suffering, you should examine whether there is anything you can do about it. If you can, there is no need to worry about it; if you cannot do anything, then there is also no need to worry.” 
― Dalai Lama XIV

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Bucket List

This is a list of things we'd like to do with our (our being mostly Megan with some input from Sol) time on earth.  Seems like its going to be hard to limit this list but let's start with no more than 500 things. Many of these are travel related! And in no particular order...

  1. Celebrate Carnival in Rio de Janeiro
  2. Go whitewater rafting
  3. Start our own business or entrepreneurial endeavor
  4. Join the PeaceCorps
  5. Spend a year or more travelling the world
  6. Sleep in a hammock on a beach
  7. Float in the Dead Sea
  8. See the Pyramids
  9. See Machu Pichu
  10. Go to the Galapagos Islands
  11. See the Bolivian salt flats
  12. See Iguazu Falls
  13. See Victoria Falls
  14. Spend time in some off the map village
  15. Visit a Buddhist monastery
  16. Get a job working in the travel industry
  17. Live and work in a foreign country
  18. Take the GRE
  19. Get a graduate degree
  20. Learn a new language
  21. Create a picture wall/ art wall in our home
  22. Decorate a home based on books, art, travel, and environmental sustainability
  23. Adopt a child
  24. Get a tattoo
  25. Learn more about world religions
  26. Read a book about Buddhism
  27. Read a book by/ about the Dalai Lama
  28. Learn to meditate
  29. Create a meditation routine
  30. Be "regulars" at a local bar
  31. Donate $1000 or more to charity
  32. Volunteer for a local NGO/ non-profit
  33. Volunteer for an international NGO/ non-profit
  34. Write a travel guide
  35. Have a well-followed travel blog/website
  36. Start a charity
  37. Go fly fishing (Solomon)
  38. Climb a fourteener
  39. Camp by/ swim in a mountain lake
  40. Swim in a natural hot springs
  41. See the Dalai Lama
  42. Get a hot stone massage
  43. Make a video about our around the world travel
  44. Make a video about our bucket list
  45. Own a home with a library or art studio
  46. Own a home with an inner courtyard
  47. Renew our wedding vows
  48. Go on a "staycation"
  49. Take a road trip
  50. Read every book by Gabriel Garcia Marquez
  51. Go to Vietnam
  52. Take a pottery throwing class
  53. Own every single Lonely Planet guidebook
  54. Go skiing at Vail
  55. Attend a concert at Red Rock
  56. Celebrate Day of the Dead in Mexico
  57. Stand at the corner of the Four Corners
  58. Visit all 50 states
  59. Go Couchsurfing
  60. Host a Couchsurfer
  61. Buy the World Heritage Sites book
  62. Visit all 851 World Heritage Sites
  63. Visit all places on at least one 7 Wonders of the World list
  64. Go island hopping in the Caribbean or Southeast Asia
  65. Learn to ski
  66. Get scuba certified
  67. Ride on a zip line
  68. Climb a volcano
  69. Go volcano boarding
  70. See some monkeys
  71. Hike through the jungle
  72. Snorkel with stingrays and tropical fish
  73. Visit a white sand beach
  74. Visit a black sand beach
  75. Take a boat down the Amazon River
  76. Explore the Amazon rainforest
  77. Stand on the banks of the Nile
  78. Move to a different state
  79. Go on a safari
  80. Learn to Latin dance
  81. Visit Havana, Cuba
  82. Get TESL/TEFL certified
  83. Have $500,000 in savings
  84. Buy groceries/ day to day supplies in a local shop or outdoor market
  85. Live in an open-air home
  86. Have a home with solar panels
  87. Live in a walking culture
  88. Live in a slower paced, more social culture
  89. Complete Rosetta Stone Spanish
  90. Complete Rosetta Stone Arabic
  91. Have a small, close knit group of friends to share everything with
  92. Furnish a room with floor cushions
  93. Learn to belly dance
  94. Fill an entire sketch book
  95. Make a reading list and finish it
  96. Visit the North Shore in winter
  97. Visit the Shwedagon Pagoda in Myanmar
  98. Climb a 14er
  99. Travel to Buenos Aires
  100. Paint the Granada cathedral

  101. Travel to Turkey
  102. Travel around South East Asia
  103. Travel across North Africa

1000 Places to See Before You Die (Patricia Schultz)

Many of my experiences that I truely treasure are not on this list but it is an interesting way to gauge travel experiences against a static list! My biggest complaint is that the list oftentimes sums up cities into one item on the list when, in my opinion, there is SO MUCH to do in each city that one could spend weeks just in one place. Here is where you can see all 1000 places listed out as they are in the book: http://listology.com/openstacks/list/places-ive-been-patricia-schultzs-1000-places-see-you-die
And these are the one's I've been to (not very many on this scale)!
England: Windsor Castle, London
Ireleand: The Book of Kells
Austria: Vienna
France: Paris
Italy: Rome, Sistene Chapel
Netherlands: Red-Light District
Spain: La Catedral de Toledo, Madrid
Czech Republic: Castle District, Charles Bridge, Old Town Square
Morocco: Essaouira, Place Djemma El-Fna
United States: The Grand Canyon in Arizona, the Pacific Coast Highway in California, Rocky Mountain National Park in Colorado, Walt Disney World Resport in Florida, Oahu in Hawaii, the Art Institute of Chicago in Illinois, Cape Cod National Seashore in Massachusetts, East Hampton in New York, the Badlands and the Blackhills in South Dakota, Pike Place Market in Washington
Mexico: Acapulco Bay, Taxco
Puerto Rico: Old San Juan
Other places I have been and experiences I have loved (that aren't on this list!):
Swimming with stingrays in the Cayman Islands.
Spotting quetzals in the Monteverde Cloud Forest in Costa Rica.
Lounging in the hot springs underneath Volcan Arenal in La Fortuna Costa Rica.
Mountain climbing and rooftop relaxation in the blue medina of Chefchaouen Morocco.
Seeing the setting for the Sound of Music in Salzburg, Austria.
Walking down to our own private beach in Olbia, Sardinia (Italy).
Noting the proximity of the McDonalds to the 'isolated' mountain hotel from The Shining in Estes Park Colorado.
My plan is to add blogs about each of these trips retroactively, wish me luck!

Next trip planned: Nicaragua and Costa Rica 2012

New Year's Resolutions

The next three posts are going to be a lot of lists. And our first list is....some goals for the year 2012! 
  1. Practice/ brush up on Spanish
  2. Draw and paint more
  3. Successful move to Colorado
  4. Read more
  5. Get a climbing gym membership and go climbing once a week
  6. Go backpacking in Colorado
  7. Pick a destination for our 2013 trip
  8. Try flyfishing
  9. Try skiing or snowboarding
  10. Fight less

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Movies that will touch your soul and open your eyes

“Every day, think as you wake up, today I am fortunate to be alive, I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others; to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings. I am going to have kind thoughts towards others, I am not going to get angry or think badly about others. I am going to benefit others as much as I can.” 
― Dalai Lama XIV

1. Beyond Borders: A movie about a young woman who oscillates between domestic life in London and life as a humanitarian aid worker. This contrast provides quite a unique perspective on some of the world's most pressing humanitarian crises.

2. Trade: A movie about sex trafficking in America. Young girls trafficked through Mexico City to be sold in the US.



3. The Road to Guantanamo: A true story about the destructive reality of Guantanamo Bay.


4. Under the Same Moon: A movie about the plight of illegal immigrants in the United States. A mother and a son desperate to reunite.


“World peace must develop from inner peace. Peace is not just mere absence of violence. Peace is, I think, the manifestation of human compassion.” 
― Dalai Lama XIV

Friday, January 13, 2012

Social Awareness Posts: A Preface

Dear Readers,
This genre of post needs a bit of prefacing before writing.  Those of you who know me know that for my job I spend my time reading about human rights abuses around the world.  Because of this I come across many, many horrifying crimes committed against innocent people every day. While some may find this very difficult to do on a day to day basis, I believe that awareness is one of the most powerful tools to stopping these violations.  Once in awhile a certain pattern of crimes or type of crime really stands out to me and hits me right at my core.  Something so horrifying and systematic that I just have to turn around and let others know what is happening on our very planet.  That is what these posts will be about.

You may be wondering, why is this on a travel blog? For me, travel is about understanding the human experience.  It is about seeing and feeling the lives of our fellow man, woman, and child.  It is about realizing that there are people out there who live lives completely different than our own.  It is about appreciating what we have and reaching out to help those who need it.  It is about cultural understanding and appreciation of all things "different" from our daily reality.  In order to effectively travel we must understand the world around us.  Travel has taught me nothing if not the fact that the world is so full of beauty.  There is so much...life and vitality in every new place I see.  Everything is pulsing, living, breathing, new, different, and so much the same. Nothing strikes me more than going on what for me is a vacation, and just taking a moment to realize that these are people just living. Going to work, feeding their families, spending time with friends, passing the time.  Same as we do at home. There is so much beauty in the simplicity of that understanding. That everything and everyone has its place. Every little thing means something, if not to you, than to someone else.  I believe that the majority of people are good and want to do good for themselves and others.  However, amid all the beauty there is evil and there is pain. 

Sometimes when reading reports of human rights abuses I find it hard to remember that it is just people, human beings, fathers, sons, sisters, who are committing such atrocities against their fellow man.  They eat and drink, laugh and cry, feel fear and confusion, just like the rest of us.  These perpetrators aren't some new breed of monsters, they are just people.  How, then, can they torture, rape and kill another human being? How could they possibly get to that state of mind that they could orchestrate horrific acts of violence?

To me in life there are some "non-negotiables".  Some things that are just wrong or right no matter what.  Some circumstances in which "everyone is entitled to their opinion" no longer applies.
Torture is bad.  Killing is bad. Rape is bad.  Non-negotiable.
Every human life has as much value as the next.  Non-negotiable.
NO ONE should be deprived their human rights to live their lives free of pain and fear. Non-negotiable.

Knowing that these things still occur, perpetrated by simple human beings, nonetheless, makes me feel pain that is hard to describe.  I weep thinking of what my fellow human must endure at the hands of others.  Things that I cannot imagine having the strength to endure.  

These things are important to understand for anyone going out into the world to travel and understand the human condition.  We must spread awareness of the horrible things so that we can savor the beauty that much more.  We must understand the terror that some people face every single day so that we can do anything in our power to help them along the way.  We must stop on our vacation or journey and think about those around us and how we are impacting them with our presence.  That is why I want to write these posts.

Now, all that being said, I know these realities can be hard to face.  I would not recommend my social awareness posts for children as they should not be troubled with the real life villains just yet.  If you do not want to read them, that is your choice.  I will try not to be graphic but the very nature of some of these atrocities are horrific and I know that many people do not wish to read about such things.  That is your prerogative. I will label the posts accordingly but please be forewarned that any Social Awareness Post will not be about pretty sunsets and fun times with locals and make your choice to read accordingly.

Sincerely,
Megan

“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them.” 
― Dalai Lama XIV

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

TripIt

This will just be a quick post about my favorite travel planning website: TripIt

This handy website (and phone app) is amazing! Just forward all your reservation confirmations for flights, hotels, rental cars, buses, etc. to TripIt and it compiles a customized itinerary with all the information you need for your trip.  No need to carry around 30 sheets of paper with all your reservation information on it.  TripIt includes confirmation numbers, check in times, maps to hotels and airports, phone numbers, flight information and everything else you need to stay on track while travelling.

The Android app is my favorite because you can just click on your hotel and immediately have it entered into your GPS or with another click, call and confirm your reservation. 

Additional features include seeing where your friends are and have been, tracking your mileage and trips on a cute little map, and saving all your past trip itineraries for future reference.

So useful and so much fun to play with--- definitely would recommend this for the organized traveler!

Budgeting Overview and Tips

Now for some specifics on what we spend on a trip.

First of all, the way we prioritize saving for a trip goes like this:
at the end of every month we look at how much we earned and subtract that month's expenditures. With whatever is left over (no matter how little) we put 1/3 into a travel fund and 2/3 into long term savings. Since our expenses are fairly consistent, we have a basic goal of what we want to put into our trip fund every month. This is what we use to estimate how long it will take us to save up enough for our next trip and this is how we know when to book our plane tickets.

Plane tickets we have a habit of buying way too early. Rick Seaney, the FareCompare.com CEO, recommends buying tickets around four months ahead of time and towards the beginning of the week. He notes that Saturday is one of the cheapest days to fly while Sunday is one of the most expensive (see article here). Tips like these are available all over the internet.

However, if you're like me and are too excited to wait to buy tickets when you decide on a destination, try some of these tips.
  • My airfare booking website of choice: kayak.com

    This site is easy to use and compares flights from all different carriers quickly and allows you to see the full price of your ticket (with fees, taxes, etc.) quickly. It also lets you compare with sites like Travelocity and Orbitz instantly so you cover all your bases. Additionally, Kayak allows you to set your dates with complete flexibility so you can find the cheapest month, week, or day to travel if you have a pretty open schedule.

    The "Explore" feature helps you decide on a destination by showing you prices all over the world from your designated home airport. The "Buzz" feature allows you to find the cheapest time to fly to a given destination.

    This is pretty much a traveler's dream as it gets rid of the rigidity of other fare searching sites and allows your travel dreams to wander.

    In addition to all this, Kayak allows you to set price alerts. I would HIGHLY recommend doing this even if you don't think you will be taking a trip for awhile. With this feature you get the lowest prices to certain destinations emailed to you at set intervals. Even if you do not end up booking these trips it gives you a great idea of what a ticket should cost and what would be a good price to aim for. Knowing this ahead of time will get rid of that "I have no idea if this is a good deal or not!" feeling when searching for airfare.
  • After you book your ticket, sign up for a free account with Yapta.com. This site tracks the cost of your flight and alerts you if you are eligible for a refund from your airline if the ticket prices drop lower than what you paid.

    For our tickets from Minneapolis to San Jose, Costa Rica (with no overnight layover this time, thank God) we spent about $600 each. I have seen them go as low as $500 but as high as $900 since then.

After buying a ticket it is important to make a budget for the rest of your trip. While this might seem a bit premature, it is easy for pre-departure expenses to get lost in the shuffle. We like to count things like guidebooks, luggage, and travel gear into our trip budget so we get a better idea of the real cost of our vacation.
  • For Costa Rica- Nicaragua we are planning on spending $600 a person for 16 days. This includes food, lodging, transportation, activities/ tours, souvenirs, the works. That's $37.50 a day.

    As you can see, plane tickets are a HUGE part of your expenses. Time at the destination is actually quite cheap (depending on where you go). You may actually be thinking "Whoa, I spend more than that living HERE!"

    During our trip we will post daily budgets to show what we spend where and to see if we make our budget goals.  It's always important to have more money than you budgeted for your trip in case of emergencies but so far we have completed every trip on (or very close to) budget!
  • From past experience, lodging can cost the most but if you travel with another person, it is cheaper than two individuals traveling alone.  In other words, travel for two (or more) is not equivalent to double the expenses for one. You are able to share rooms, transportation costs, food costs, etc. which makes a huge difference.
  • Also, as much as we enjoy trying local cuisines, we always look for hostels with shared kitchens.  Going to the grocery store can be a cultural experience in itself and you can save so much money by not going out to eat for every meal, even just for breakfast.

So we will see just how close we can come to our budgeted goal...